In This Issue
Hookah Smoking: A Growing Public Health Issue
Scientific Evidence of the Health Risks of Hookah Smoking
Procrastination: 9 Simple Solutions
Six Reasons to Review a Returned Test
Fifteen Things God Won't Ask
Expect More
Farmer Sausage and Vegetables
California Corner
Atlanta News
PurpleStride Atlanta

Habitat for Humanity
 October 21-25
 
HERO hard at work!
 
This trip has taught me that when I put my mind to something I can accomplish it. It has also inspired me to do more community service work. I never realized how much different one group  of people can make. I was shocked how much we accomplished in a week. By the time we left the whole outside of the house was done. It was definitely an unforgetable trip!
~ HERO resident
 
HERO House CA Hike
 
Water on the Hike

 
More Hiking
 

Definition of a hero: 

 

he·ro Pronunciation Key (hîro) n. pl. he·roes

 

1. In mythology and legend, a person, often of divine ances­try, who is endowed
with great courage and strength, celebrated for their bold exploits, and
favored by the gods.

 

2. A person noted for feats of courage or nobility of purpose, especially one who has risked or sacrificed his or her life.

 
 

 Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony.

 ~Mahatma Gandhi
 

Endurance is nobler than strength, and patience than beauty.

 

 ~John Ruskin

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

 ~Helen Keller

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience,

but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.

 

 ~Martin Luther King, Jr.

Thursday, October 7, 2010 Volume 2, Issue 45
 
Our primary focus is our own recovery and rebuilding our own lives. We will lead by example and not interfere with another's recovery.
Hookah Smoking: A Growing Public Health Issue

What is a waterpipe?
A waterpipe, also known as a hookah, is a long-necked device used to smoke tobacco. The tobacco is indirectly heated in a bowl, often using a quick-lighting charcoal, and the smoke is filtered through water. 
 
What are other names for a waterpipe?
Hookah, hubble bubble, nargile, argileh, shisha, boory, and goza (and various spellings of these terms) are all names for a waterpipe.
 
What type of tobacco is smoked in a waterpipe?
The most common waterpipe tobacco in the United States is maassel (also spelled mu'essel, mu'assel; sometimes referred to as shisha), a tobacco sweetened with honey or molasses that is available in a variety of flavors, including apple, banana, strawberry, chocolate, mint, coffee, rose, and vanilla. Tobacco-free herbal maassel is also available. One bowl of maassel will typically last 30-45 minutes when smoked in a waterpipe. 
 
Where can you buy a waterpipe or maassel?
Waterpipes and maassel are widely available for purchase on the internet and in certain retail establishments, such as hookah lounges and Middle Eastern markets. The same age restrictions that apply to purchasing other tobacco products (18or older in most states)also apply to purchasing waterpipes and maassel. Online prices for packaged maassel rangefrom $7 to $20 for 250g, which will fill approximately 20-30 bowls. Maassel is also sold in single-serve packages ("shots"), often for less than $1 each. 
 
Who uses waterpipes?
Waterpipe users are primarily young adults between the ages of 18 and 25, particularly college students. Surveys estimate that between 15% and 20% of college freshmen have used waterpipes in the past month. 
 
Where are waterpipes used?
Waterpipes are generally used in a group setting, either in a private residence or a public hookah lounge (also called hookah bars or cafes). Hookah lounges are an increasingly popular alternative to bars and clubs, as they may be open later hours (e.g., until 4:00 a.m.) and are open to those who are under 21. Most hookah lounges require customers be of legal adult age, but some establishments that sell herbal maassel may have a lower minimum age. Several online hookah bar directories are available(e.g., www.hookah-bars.com, www.hookahculture.com), and an informal review found that the cost for the use of a hookah and a bowl of maassel at hookah bars range from $5 to $20. 
 
What are the perceptions of the harm of waterpipe use?
The majority of waterpipe smokers believe that waterpipe smoking is less harmful than cigarette smoking. For example, most beginning waterpipe smokers (90%) believe cigarette smoking is more addictive than waterpipe smoking. Another survey found that 83% of waterpipe users believed a cigarette smoker who switched to waterpipe use would experience a reduction in health risks. These findings are of concern, since perceptions of low risk are often related to higher prevalence of use.
 
What are the health effects? The next article in The HERO House Weekly News will review current research on the health effects of waterpipe use, including misconceptions that may contribute to the growing popularity of hookah smoking.
 
Sources
CESAR FAX Volume 17, Issue 22 (June 2, 2008)
"Hookah Smoking: A Growing Public Health Issue" & Experimental Research.

Scientific Evidence of the Health Risks of Hookah Smoking

Does the smoothness of waterpipe smoke mean it is safer than cigarette smoke?
While hookah smoke is less irritating to the throat, it still contains tar, carbon monoxide, and nicotine. The smoothness of hookah smoke may actually encourage deeper inhalation and thus greater exposure to these elements. The World Health Organization estimates that hookah users may inhale as much smoke during one hookah session as a cigarette smoker would inhale consuming 100 or more cigarettes.
 
Does the water in a hookah filter out harmful ingredients?
The water filters out only a small amount of the carbon monoxide, nicotine, tar, and heavy metals found in hookah smoke. For example, less than 5% of nicotine is filtered out into the water. This nominal reduction of nicotine may be offset by a tendency to compensate by inhaling more deeply or more often to get the desired amount of nicotine.
 
Is hookah smoking safer than cigarette smoking because the tobacco is not burned?
While the tobacco in a hookah is heated rather than burned, it still produces smoke. In addition, hookah tobacco is often lit using charcoal, which itself releases high levels of carbon monoxide. The levels of carbon monoxide (CO) produced and absorbed by hookah smoking, which may be as high or higher than that of cigarettes, vary depending on hookah size (higher CO in smaller hookahs), the type of hose on the hookah (higher CO with a plastic hose), the type of charcoal, and the type of tobacco. 
 
My hookah tobacco says it has no tar. Does this mean it is safer to smoke than other tobacco?
Tobacco itself does not contain tar-tar is created when tobacco burns. While several studies have found that tobacco smoked through a hookah produces more tar than tobacco smoked in a cigarette, it has been suggested that it is the quality-not the quantity-of tar produced that is of concern. Since the tobacco smoked through a hookah is heated rather than burned, it reaches much lower temperatures than in a cigarette. The temperature at which tar is produced from burning tobacco may be related to how hazardous and carcinogenic it is, thus the type of tar produced by hookah smoke may be less carcinogenic than that produced by cigarette smoke. 
 
Is hookah smoking safer than cigarette smoking because the nicotine content is lower?
Since the nicotine content of both cigarettes and hookah tobacco varies greatly, it is hard to determine which product has higher nicotine. However, a meta-analysis of studies of hookah smokers found that a person who smokes hookah daily absorbs as much nicotine as someone who smokes 10 cigarettes per day, while an occasional hookah smoker (once during a four-day period) absorbs as much nicotine as smoking two cigarettes per day.
 
Can I become addicted to smoking a hookah?
Hookah smoking has potentially the same risks of dependence as any other way of using tobacco. However, the risks may be decreased slightly because of the intermittent, recreational nature of hookah use. The limited research on hookah dependence suggests that a transition from social to individual use, sharing less frequently, and a change of behavior to accommodate hookah use may be signs of possible dependence.
 
Is smoking non-tobacco, herbal maassel harmful?
While herbal maassel does not contain nicotine, it still produces tar and CO when burned.
 
Sources
CESAR FAX Volume 17, Issue 23 (June 9, 2008)
"Scientific Evidence of the Health Risks of Hookah Smoking"

Procrastination:  9 Simple Solutions

Irony: As I started to write this article, I thought, "I'll just go play one Sudoku game first." I caught myself in the act and marched to my laptop.

 

People who say that procrastination is about laziness are probably the same people who think that anorexia is about not eating enough.

Procrastination isn't about laziness. It's about fear. It's about perfectionism. It's about overwhelm. We all experience it, and there are some tricks to help you get moving again.

Here are 9 ways to break the procrastination habit:

1 - When you get an idea, do some little thing to begin.
When I read Stephen King's book On Writing, I noticed something. I noticed that when Stephen King gets an idea, he writes it. Immediately and imperfectly.

Most people get an idea. Then they sit there. They wonder if it's a good idea. Then, they wonder if it's a good idea some more.
Got an idea? Begin it now!

 

2 - All hail small chunks of time!
Lots of us complain about having no time. My guess is that we all have lots of time. It just doesn't happen to be all at once.

Are you waiting for many hours of spare time to begin your idea, your project, or your taxes? Stop waiting! Learn to use the spare half hour that comes up here and there.
 
(I gave myself 45 minutes to write this article just to take my own advice.) 
 
3 - Agree to do it badly.
Set a goal to do it badly. Set a goal to show up. Let go of doing it ALL, or doing it WELL.

Some of my coaching clients' biggest victories have a lot more to do with getting over perfectionism and fear, than they do about getting it all done perfectly
 
4 - Commit aloud.
Call a friend and say something like this: "I'm going to spend the next half hour working on my Law School Essay." Then go do it.

Call the friend after the half hour and make her congratulate you. Repeat daily..
 
5 - Define quantities.
Nebulous goals make for nebulous results. "I'm gonna get my office organized" is a lot like saying, "We oughtta do something about Global Warming."

Most procrastinators have a hard time defining quantities. We think everything needs to be done NOW.

When are you going to do it? For how long? Which part of your office? The file cabinet? Or your desk?

Define the goal and acknowledge its completion.

Note: The Clutter Removal Action Process (or, "C.R.A.P.") is one of the many bonus elements of my new "Uplevel Your Life Mastery Program" - and it makes this step a BREEZE!

 6 - Install this System Upgrade into your Mental Hard Drive: Less is More.
Have fewer goals. Have no more than three priorities for a week.

Why? Because you're not lazy. You're just trying to do too much.

Find out what it feels like to accomplish one thing instead of not quite getting to everything. Wow - what a difference this makes!

7 - Do it first.
My first coach made me write songs first thing in the morning. He told me to schedule the 2-hour chunk as my first activity upon waking.

Why?  "Because you're telling the universe that this is your priority. And then the universe lines up everything to align with your priority."
 
Action grounds your priorities. It makes them real. It also makes your day easier because you're not wasting energy thinking about this thing you're supposed to be doing.

8 - Avoid nose-bleed activities.
Email, voicemail, web stats - any activity that bleeds itself into your whole day becomes a non-activity. It becomes a nose-bleed.

When you do it all the time, you never complete it. You just let it slowly drain the very life force from you. Define times for these activities. Then, turn off your email, your cell phone, your web stats, until that time comes.
 
9 - Don't ask how you "feel" about doing the activity.
Have you ever committed to getting fit? And then when the alarm goes off, you lie in bed thinking, "Do I really feel like going to the gym?" (Like you even have to ask!)

Change this pattern. Make your decision the night before. Commit to getting up and going right to the gym, the computer, the blank canvas. Don't have coffee and sigh and think, "I'll probably feel more like it at lunch time." You won't!

If it's a priority, don't waste time asking yourself how you feel about doing it. Feelings are an easy out.
 
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There. I did it. I wrote this article. And now, I don't even want to play Sudoku! How about that?
 
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School Is In Session: Six Reasons to Review a Returned Test
 
 Check the point total to make sure it is right. Look for mistakes in grading.
 
 Know what questions you missed and why you missed them. The reason you missed the question is often as important in taking your next test as the answer.
 
 Study the instructor's comments especially for essay questions so that you will know what is expected next time.
 
 Look for kinds of questions and tricky questions that the instructor likes to use.
 
 See if the questions came from the text or the lecture. Concentrate more on that source for the next exam.
 
 Correct and understand what you missed. This is information you need to know. It may appear on a later test or the final.
Fifteen Things God Won't Ask
God won't ask what kind of car you drove, but will ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation.
 
God won't ask the square footage of your house, but will ask how many people you welcomed into your home.
 
God won't ask about the fancy clothes you had in your closet, but will ask how many of those clothes helped the needy.
 
God won't ask about your social status, but will ask what kind of class you displayed.
 
God won't ask how many material possessions you had, but will ask if they dictated your life.
 
God won't ask what your highest salary was, but will ask if you compromised your character to obtain that salary.
 
God won't ask how much overtime you worked, but will ask if you worked overtime for your family and loved ones.
 
God won't ask how many promotions you received, but will ask how you promoted others.
 
God won't ask what your job title was, but will ask if you reformed your job to the best of your ability.
 
God won't ask what you did to help yourself, but will ask what you did to help others.
 
God won't ask how many friends you had, but will ask how many people to whom you were a true friend.
 
God won't ask what you did to protect your rights, but will ask what you did to protect the rights of others.
 
God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived, but will ask how you treated your neighbors.
 
God won't ask about the color of your skin, but will ask about the content of your character.
 
God won't ask how many times your deeds matched your words, but will ask how many times they didn't.

 Expect More
This is already a wonderful day. Expect it to get even better.
 
There are many interesting and useful things you already know. Expect to learn even more.
 
You've successfully navigated through every past challenge. Expect to reap even greater success from the challenges you now face.
 
There is already great value in your life and in your world. Expect to create even more.
 
As good as life is, you can make it even richer and more fulfilling. Expect to move forward today and you'll find a way, no matter what, to make real progress.
 
If you knew without a doubt that you would get what you expect, what would you expect? Truly expect the best of today and you'll find those expectations leading you steadily forward.  

 
  ~Ralph Marston 
Farmer Sausage & Vegetables
    

Sausage, potatoes and veggies round out this great dish. It's a quick fix when you're pressed for time and need a meal that will satisfy kids and adults alike. It's the missing link in the recipe box. 
 
Ingredients
1 lb. Kielbasa sausage, chopped
1 small onion, chopped
1 tbsp. oil
1 9-oz.pkg. Au gratin potato mix
2 1/2 cups hot water
1 8-oz. pkg. frozen mixed vegetables
 
Methods/steps
Brown sausage and onion in oil for about 5 minutes and stir in potatoes, sauce mix, and water. Heat until boiling. Reduce heat and cover. Simmer for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally and then add frozen vegetables and simmer until vegetables are tender.

serve.

California Corner

Begin With A Blank Page

from Tricia Thibodeau

Program Director, California

 

If you could start your life all over what would be different? What would you change now if you were able to wave a magic wand and start from scratch?

Just imagine you have no ties, no burdens, no limits, no memories, and no past.

What would your life look like? If the answer that comes to your mind is different than what you are doing, why is that? Is it because of someone else's opinion? A spouse, a parent - or maybe your children?

The ultimate test of your life is to close your eyes and think of yourself on your deathbed. Lying there, preparing yourself to leave, look back at your life as you are currently living it.

How do you feel? Are you satisfied you lived completely? Or do you wish you had done differently? Very few of our senior citizens look back on their life and say, "I sure wish I had spent more time at the office!" Nobody says, "I wish I had watched more TV!"

This is what they say. "I wish I had been bolder. I wish I had given more. I wish I had tried harder to see more, do more and feel more." People wish that they had lived more.

I, for one, have to admit to a certain amount of holding back on dreams and goals because of our two boys. As my life progresses I realize there is no reason to hold back.

We have not been exactly standing still either. We have done our best to live our dreams. We built a sailboat and sailed for 7 years traveling on the open ocean. We lived in the snow in Aspen Colorado, and on the beach in South Carolina. An old brick mill was our home in Long Island, versus a boat dock in Palm Beach Florida. We are writers of books and music, actors in the theater, and we home- school the boys. We have built a horse farm, and businesses! Yet, there is so much more we want to do!

It is a balancing act. We all must have sufficient finances to support a comfortable lifestyle, (although most of us tend to spend way too much on that!) Part of this balancing act is understanding what we are passionate about doing so that work becomes a joy instead of a job.

Is this not a major reason of lost dreams and goals? Many people find work, call it a job and make a living at it. But they begrudge every minute of it, going as far as using the job as a reason for playing the martyr. Find something else!

There are many, many teachers of the attraction philosophies of "making a life". With as many opportunities today in every field imaginable, somewhere, something is calling to you.

Another part of the balancing act is to include those around you in frank and open discussions in what it is you want. I find some of my coaching clients have kept their wants and needs bottled up inside them forever! They had already decided for the other person in their lives there was no interest in whatever it was they themselves wanted to do! How absurd! How can we possibly know what someone else wants!

Would it not be tragic to spend your life in a big city for 40 years, working at a job you despise because you thought your spouse liked it, even though you wanted to live in the country and be a farmer? Then one day you overhear your spouse tell her best friend all she ever wanted to do was live in the country? 40 years!

Sure this is a bit far fetched - but you would be amazed at what I hear!

Make an attempt today to start with a brand new page of your life. Create your life story how you want it. If there are others in your life to be involved, have them do the same exercise. Then compare what your notes. If this matches your current life, congratulations! You are one of the few. Now make it better.

However, if your written life stories sound like someone completely different, then you are living a life of conflict.

Here is the good news. Your life is your life. No one can take that away from you. You are not indentured. You are not a slave. You are free to go, do, and be whomever you wish.

It might not be easy, but it sure might be worth it. I coach people daily who are changing their lives. There are so many things to be grateful for, and so many things open to us. We owe it to all the ones before us who gave us this opportunity to take advantage of it.

Today.

 

by Miami Phillips

Atlanta News
Giving Back
 The West End Area of Narcotics Anonymous is holding their 24th Annual Anniversary Convention (WEANA) the weekend of October 29-30. This year residents, staff and alumni of The HERO House will be involved in two seperate panel discussions at the Convention. On Friday evening, Brian L. and Bobby P. will participate in a panel discussion entitled, "We Cannot Deny Addicts Their Pain." On Saturday, Erica B., Jason C. and Greg B. will join the conversation "The Gift of Getting Clean at an Early Age."
 
Upcoming Events in Atlanta
 
*Fright Fest at 6 Flags Over Georgia

Saturday, October 9, 2010
2 pm- 10 pm
 
Guests will find tricks and treats around every corner as Six Flags Over Georgia transforms into the ultimate Halloween playground during Fright Fest! Your sure to have a ghoulish good time with hair raising shows, killer rides and even more spookier attractions.
 
*Sober Sunday at the Atlanta Zoo Pavilion
Sunday, October 20, 2010
2 pm- 7 pm

 
BBQ and fixin's, live music, door prizes, crafts and more (and all at the zoo!) Join in the celebration of fellowship found in the rooms of recovery. Sponsored by Hope Homes.
 
*Habitat For Humanity
A Journey that Can Change a Life Forever...
October 21-25
 
Collegiate Challenge is Habitat for Humanity's year-round alternative break program that provides opportunities for students from youth groups, high schools and colleges to spend a week of their school break building a house in partnership with a Habitat for Humanity affiliate in the United States.

A Collegiate Challenge trip may be the best school break trip you will ever have. Not only do you help people in need - it's also fun!  
 
The HERO House recognizes the power of a truly alternative break, giving students the opportunity to not only have a great time on an affordable trip, but to do so while making a difference. Participants will enjoy being able to clearly see the impact their hearts and hands can have on a Habitat for Humanity house and its host community in just one week.
 
We look forward to taking our residents on this service trip.  While in Augusta, not only will we work with Habitat, we will explore the culture and history of this enduring city.  We will set aside the time for 12-Step Meetings in the Central Savannah River Area.  We look forward to our HEROes becoming heroes for the week in Augusta!
 
*WEANA 24
Friday, October 29, 2010/Saturday, October 30, 2010
Crowne Plaza Hotel
 
Joining in the Fellowship of Narcotics Anonymous with workshops, comedy, fashion and fun.
 
*HERO House Halloween Havoc  
Saturday, October 30
8:00 pm
 
Monster Movies

Creepy Cookie Decorating
Dreadful Dancing
Chilling Costumes
Crazy Candy
FINGER Food
Fantastic Fun
 
*Street Meals

Sunday, November 7, 2010
12:30 pm - 4:30 pm
 
The HERO House in partnership with Kashi Atlanta in their Street Meals program for several months now. Street Meals helps alleviate hunger for the homeless population in Atlanta. Street Meals is supported by a dedicated corps of volunteers who are committed to seva - selfless service - as an extension of their yoga practice. Teaching people about the joy of community service is a part of our commitment.
 
The first Sunday of every month The HERO House residents and staff make and distribute over 250 sack lunches to Atlanta's homeless. The HERO House wanted to create a service opportunity for our residents as we believe that being of service is a major component in bringing about lasting recovery. When discussing how to bring this project to fruition we turned to Kashi Atlanta for support.
 
We at The HERO House look forward to being part of the change we wish to see in the world!
 
*PurpleStride Atlanta
Saturday, November 13, 2010
 
· Fundraising walk with music and breakfast
· Perimeter Mall, Atlanta, GA
 
You can make a difference! Have a great time while creating awareness and raising funds to advance research, support patients and create hope for those affected by pancreatic cancer. For more information and to register, visit www.purplestride.org
 
*The HERO House Celebrates Thanksgiving
Thursday, November 18, 2010
6:00 pm
 
The community of The HERO House will gather and celebrate what we have to be thankful for in our lives and enjoy a full turkey dinner with all the trimmings!

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"Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn't know that so it goes on flying anyway."

~Mary Kay Ash

 PurpleStride Atlanta
 
 
About The HERO House
 

The HERO House is a recovery residence for college students in early sobriety.  We serve men and women in separate residences, based upon Peer-to-Peer Recovery Support, grounded in the 12-Step process. The HERO House is a community of students in recovery, sharing life experiences and helping each other achieve long term, quality sobriety and a manner of living that will make them outstanding contributors to our society.

 

Additionally, at the Higher Education Recovery Option, we work with students to return to school and to find the tools necessary to be successful while sober, on a college campus.  We tell residents at intake that our program is typically a one-year program; however, we recognize some residents will finish early and some will need additional time.  To successfully complete our program, residents need to complete a 12-Step Program, successfully complete one full-time semester of college, and to advance through all four of our levels of competency at The HERO House.

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