In This Issue
Phantom of the Opera
Living with Co-occuring Addiction and Mental Health Disorders - A Handbook for Recovery
Six Exercises for Discovering Hope
Each Person
Achieving Excellence - The HERO House Board of Advisors
Poor and Tired Bean Soup
California Corner
Atlanta News
Featured Article
Drawing from an evidence-based program by internationally recognized pioneers in the integrated treatment of co-occurring disorders from the Dartmouth Medical School, Living with Co-occurring Addiction and Mental Health Disorders is a handbook designed to inform and empower those with dual disorders

Tonight
July 8, 2010
8:00 pm
The Fox Theatre
Atlanta, GA

Definition of a hero: 

 

he·ro Pronunciation Key (hîro) n. pl. he·roes

 

1. In mythology and legend, a person, often of divine ances­try, who is endowed
with great courage and strength, celebrated for their bold exploits, and
favored by the gods.

 

2. A person noted for feats of courage or nobility of purpose, especially one who has risked or sacrificed his or her life.

 
 

 Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony.

 ~Mahatma Gandhi
 

Endurance is nobler than strength, and patience than beauty.

 

 ~John Ruskin

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.

 ~Helen Keller

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience,

but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.

 

 ~Martin Luther King, Jr.

Thursday, July 8, 2010 Volume 2, Issue 33
 
Our primary focus is our own recovery and rebuilding our own lives. We will lead by example and not interfere with another's recovery.
Living with Co-occurring Addiction and Mental Health Disorders - A Handbook for Recovery

Author: Mark McGovern, Ph.D.

 

Approximately eleven million people in North America have a substance use disorder and at least one other mental health disorder. Those who are struggling with a combination of these disorders may be met with a powerful recipe for destruction, especially self-destruction. The good news is that there is help.

 

Drawing from an evidence-based program by internationally recognized pioneers in the integrated treatment of co-occurring disorders from the Dartmouth Medical School, Living with Co-occurring Addiction and Mental Health Disorders is a handbook designed to inform and empower those with dual disorders. It allows each person to make the best choices about his or her own treatment and, in collaboration with a trained clinician, sculpt a program that works. Key topics include

¨       getting an assessment

¨       reviewing treatment options

¨       selecting the right treatment team

¨       setting achievable goals and making positive changes with cognitive-behavioral therapy

¨       building a support network of family and friends, and connecting with others recovering from co-occurring disorders

 

Introduction

 

How This Book Can Help

Let's listen in as several people talk about their lives:

 

Rashid: It seems like I'm always arguing with people. I'm not a mean person, but many things people say just piss me off. Just yesterday a total stranger walked up to me and dissed my girlfriend, for no damn reason. What could I do but get in his face? Most of the time it's just words, but once in a while, especially after a few beers at Barney's, my neighborhood bar, it boils over into a fight.

 

Natasha: My emotions rule me. I don't want them to, but they do. Sometimes

I feel like I'm queen of the universe, filled with love and great ideas, and I want to hug everyone I meet and tell them about the incredible plans I have. Then, sometimes the very next morning, I can hardly get out of bed. Just making coffee seems like way too much work. Some days if it weren't for the meth, I'd stay in bed and not move all day.

 

Seth: I'm the first to admit that I'm wound pretty tight. The endless details of life nag at me. Just leaving the house in the morning can set off a string of worries. Did I lock the back door? Did I turn off the stove after boiling my tea water? Did I remember to leave the bedroom door open for the cat? Sometimes I start out for work and then, a few blocks from home, I have to turn around and go back to make sure everything's okay. I take lots of deep breaths-ten at a time-to help me relax. They do help a little. But what really helps calm me, especially at the end of the day, is a couple of bowls of weed. The only problem is that, lately, I've been having trouble sleeping without it.

 

Kim: The big problem with coke dealers is that they don't trust anybody. After you've been around one for a while, neither do you. It's not like I hang out with Brad, but when I go to his apartment every Monday to make a buy, often there's a game on his giant plasma TV, and he usually invites me to watch it with him. The problem is that lately I've got the feeling that someone's watching me. At first I thought it was the woman I see each morning walking her dog by the river. Now I wonder if it's my dry cleaner. Last summer she bought a house just around the corner, and now I run into her at least once a day-at Starbucks, at the drugstore, in the park across the street. It's possible that she's a narc staking me out, planning on arresting me. I know that sounds crazy, but just three weeks ago there was a

big drug bust only four blocks away. I can't help but wonder if I'm next.

 

Alison: I don't know how my roommate does it. She always seems to know just what to say to people, how much to smile, what tone to use-all that stuff. I'm the opposite. If I meet somebody, once we've exchanged names and talked about what we do for a living, my brain locks up. I have no idea what to say. I get more and more anxious and embarrassed. Finally I make an excuse and get out of there. Sometimes I force myself to go to a party or art opening, but after ten or fifteen minutes, I just can't handle it. I get a drink, park myself in a corner, slurp the drink down, and repeat the process five or six times. Eventually I'm not anxious or embarrassed anymore, but I'm too wasted to do anything but call a cab, go home, and crawl into bed.

 

Each of these five people has what's called co-occurring disorders (or, sometimes, a dual disorders, a dual diagnosis, a co-morbid condition, or-as some recovering people refer to it-double trouble). Since co-occurringdisorders is the most common variation, it's the term used most often in this book.

 

"Co-occurring" just means that someone has two or more disorders at the same time, like diabetes and high blood pressure. Each of the people quoted above has both a mental health disorder and a substance use problem (either substance abuse or substance dependence).

 

A reasonable amount of stress and a healthy physiology keep us sane and content. When things get out of balance, however, we can become absolutely miserable, and sometimes dangerous to ourselves or others. Medical professionals call this lack of balance a mental health disorder. Like many other disorders, it may require treatment. Also like many other disorders, it can be effectively treated in the vast majority of cases.

 

Although many people don't realize it, substance dependence-or, as it's more commonly known, addiction-is a type of mental health disorder. When someone can no longer control how much of a drug they use, or how much alcohol they drink, and they continue to use it even though it causes problems for themselves or others, they've got an addiction. This means they crave the addictive substance. Even though it causes them harm, this craving, in turn, leads to their uncontrolled drinking or drug use.

 

Co-occurring disorders occur when addiction gets mixed together with a second mental health disorder. This can be a powerful recipe for trouble-mostly to the person who has the disorders.

  

But there's a bright spot: many effective treatments are available for a wide range of mental health problems, for substance dependence or abuse, and for these disorders when they occur together.

 

Yet there is also some very good news for everyone with co-occurring disorders: there is lots of hope-and lots of help. More than two decades of intensive research has enabled professionals to create integrated treatment programs that address both sides of co-occurring disorders, at the same time, in the same place, and with the same group of professionals. These integrated programs have proven very effective, helping countless people to recover their health, their happiness, and their lives. This is true for every type of co-occurring mental health and substance use disorder.

 

This isn't cheerleading or wishful thinking. Scientists know success is possible because it has been evident in a wide range of clinical studies. Since this is a practical self-help book rather than a book for professionals, my colleagues and I won't trot out all the research-but everything in this book is based on studies of real people in real situations. It's all been tested and proven to be the world's "evidence-based practices": the things that work the best, and the most often, for the largest number of people.

 

The result of these evidence-based practices is that large numbers of people are now able to deal with every major type of co-occurring disorder. A great many are in successful recovery from their substance abuse and addictions. Many are in recovery from their mental health disorders. Others are able to control or manage their mental health disorders through proper treatment. And people from all of these groups have built or rebuilt meaningful lives.

 

This book contains the essence of what a small group of Dartmouth Medical School faculty have learned during more than twenty years of research involving people with co-occurring disorders and the professionals who treat them. The single most important thing we've learned is that people who have a co-occurring diagnosis are more likely to get better, to get better faster, and to stay better, when both disorders are treated together, using a unified, integrated approach. But "unified" doesn't mean a lockstep program. Over the years, we've also learned that one-size-fits-all approaches haven't yielded the best results. In fact, part of what does work best is letting each person make certain key decisions about his or her own treatment and recovery.

 

This book informs, empowers, explains what works and what doesn't, and offers a variety of positive choices and options. Its goal is to help people with co-occurring disorders to feel better, recover from their substance abuse or addiction, manage or recover from their mental health problems, build lives worth living, and be empowered advocates for their own health and sanity.

 

Informative, thorough, and easy to follow, this book is designed to help the millions of people with co-occurring disorders thrive and be their own best recovery advocates.

 

Related worksheets are available at www.bhevolution.org.

 

Mark McGovern, Ph.D., is an Associate Professor of Psychiatry and of Community and Family Medicine at Dartmouth Medical School. He is one of the authors of the Hazelden Co-occurring Disorders Program, designed for professionals in treatment and mental health.

 

Scott Edelstein is a consultant, literary agent, and widely published freelance writer.

                                                            

Six Exercises for Discovering Hope

Adapted from A Way of Seeing, by John Allison (Lindisfarne Books, 2003).

 

If, like most of us, you need more of a sense of hope in your life, consider these thoughtful exercises:

The first exercise concerns the life of thinking. We are asked to spend a few minutes each day (for about a month) focusing our attention upon a single thought of something we hope for. We must exclude from consciousness all thoughts which do not relate directly to the object of our thinking. This exercise can be seen as a fitness program in the "soul-gym" for dealing with denial. Whenever we refuse to admit the possibility of something, our thinking skates and slithers about on the thin ice of rationality, inventing explanations and excuses.

The second exercise brings self-disciple into the will. We choose to do a simple and quite unnecessary act at the same time each day (perhaps for a month). The task may consist of transferring keys from one pocket to another, or of untying and retying a shoelace. The value of this exercise is that it is essentially "useless," of no significance outwardly; it is then free of all compulsion. In disciplining our will-forces, we form a basis for the reining-in of anger, so that instead of lashing out we may attend to the issue.

The third exercise requires us to find a relationship to personal experiences through which we can view them with complete composure. It is better at first to look at some event in the past than a present issue; but essentially we must learn to regard joys and sorrows equally as the weather of the soul. At each time each day a mood of inner tranquility is established in the soul, and in these moments we become able to contemplate reality without being swept back and forth emotionally. We then learn to "own" whatever is ours, and to let go of whatever is not.

The fourth exercise is a challenge to view everything with positives, to say "Yes" to every experience which comes to us. This exercise aims toward the development of a positive gesture toward every aspect of life. Every situation is an opportunity for learning; even the deepest experience of depression then becomes a parable.

The fifth exercise extends this positivity further, to develop an open-minded attitude to the whole world. This implies having no prejudices, and being able to imagine that anything might be possible. Hence this particular exercise, through which we develop open-mindedness toward life in all its forms as it streams toward us. To arrive at acceptance requires such an open gesture.

The sixth exercise involves balancing the soul's developmental needs through our continued practice of these exercises in relation with one another, an activity which is different in the case of every individual.

 

 Each Person

 

Always remember, when you interact with someone else, that someone is a person. The recipient of your email, or the voice on the phone, or the individual waiting behind you in line, is a person

 

Each person you encounter has hopes, dreams, joys, pains, problems, abilities, interests, things to do and opinions. Though you may or may not agree with or like that person, it serves you well to be respectful and understanding.

 

The people in your world add great richness to your life. Take the time and care to treat them not as numbers, not as transactions, not as one-dimensional objects, but as real, living people.

 

Treasure your interactions, and give your full attention to them. Nurture your relationships, and continually build them with love.

 

Take notice of, acknowledge, appreciate and accommodate not only the people you know, but also those people you don't know who cross your path. Sincerely value those around you, and you'll add great value to your life. 

 

~Ralph Marston

Achieving Excellence - The HERO House Board of Advisors

 

As we strive to always provide the best recovery and academic experience possible for our residents, we have established a Board of Advisors to assist us with our mission.

 

We are honored that so many people have agreed to serve on the inaugural Board of Advisors for The HERO House!  Our first board meeting will be held on July 18/19, 2010. 

 

Board of Advisors:

Kathy Bieger, HERO House Alumni Parent

David Blackwell, Clinical Outreach Coordinator, Cumberland Heights

George Braucht, Program Specialist, The Georgia State Board of Pardons and Paroles

Leslie Brull, HERO House Alumni Parent

Rachael Day, Director of Career Services, Chattahoochee Tech

Mark Elberfeld, Communications Coordinator, The Gabriel Center for Servant-Leadership

Jack Findlay, HERO House Volunteer

Vanessa Hebert, LCSW, Addiction Counseling

Neil Kaltenecker, Executive Director of Georgia Council on Substance Abuse

Stephanie Knight, Student Involvement Coordinator, Georgia Institute of Technology

Jesse Smith,  HERO House Alumni

 

Sunday, July 18

6:00 pm                        BBQ Dinner with residents, alumni andstaff.

 

Monday, July 19

8:30 am - 3:00 pm           Board Member Meetings

 

We look forward to updating you about these exciting individuals and the contributions they make to The HERO House as advisors!


Add Healthy Items To Your Menu

     

The truth is that the basics of healthy eating have not changed much in over 50 years.  The best advice is still to choose an eating style that emphasizes fruit, vegetables, and whole grains.  Your diet should also include an adequate amount of dairy products to meet your calcium needs and protein-rich foods, such as meat, fish, fowl, and/or legumes, nuts and seeds.  This advice may sound simplistic, but most of us know how hard it can be to make healthy choices while attending college.  In fact, 8% of students eat the recommended number of five servings of fruits and vegetables a day, according to the Spring 2006 American College Health Association National College Health Assessment of over 94,000 students.  And, 62.5% of college students responding to a Student Health 101 survey said they did think they eat too much food that is NOT good for them.

 

Try the tips to improve your daily diet:

 

Eat cereal with low-fat milk as a snack.

 

Choose stir-fried meals that are loaded with vegetables.

 

Fill burritos with beans, salsa, veggies, and cheese.

 

Enjoy fruit smoothies and real fruit juice.

 

Select soup, stew, and pasta dishes that contain vegetables. 

 

Include fruit and green salads with your meals.

 

Try whole-grain pilaf and salads, like tabouli.

 

Top yogurt and ice cream with fruit and whole-grain cereal or granola.

 

Color counts.  Fruits and vegetables with more color (on the inside) tend to have more nutritional value.  The color of the peel doesn't count.

 

Source:

Student Health 101

January 2009

 

Poor and Tired Black Bean Soup

 

Take one can black beans (drained), 1 cup of chunky salsa, ½ cup of vegetable broth.  Combine all ingredients in a blender.  Blend for about 30 seconds.  Heat on stove or in a microwave.  Serve with tortillas and cheese or on top of rice. ~Elizabeth Evans, University of Portland

 California Corner

 "July Flies"

by Tricia Thibodeau

Program Director, California

 

July at the HERO House California started out with a 4th of July Bar-B-Q and a program on Stress Management.  Coming together to celebrate a day of independence was also a nice way for the students and staff to relax and share the weeks events with one another.  The students joined together for a fishing trip on the 5th of July.  Tuesday the 6th was our first "One Mile Fun Run" followed my a community lunch of chicken ceaser salad. 

           

The HERO House office has come together beautifully and should be fully functional by the end of the week.  The students and staff united together to paint the office space.  The student who is creating the sign for the HERO House office is finished and is excited to be part of the creation of the design.  He did an amazing job.  We are all enthusiastic about how the HERO House California is flying into July with it's new office and activities.

Atlanta News
 

Upcoming Events in Atlanta

 

Phantom of The Opera

Thursday, July 8 @ 8 pm

Fox Theatre, Downtown Atlanta

 

 

It's the final engagements! With some of the most lavish sets, costumes and special effects ever to have been created for the stage, Andrew Lloyd Webber's THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA directed by Harold Prince traces the tragic love story of a beautiful opera singer and a young composer shamed by his physical appearance into a shadowy existence beneath the majestic Paris Opera House. Adapted from Gaston Leroux's classic novel of mystery and suspense, this award-winning musical has woven its magical spell over standing room audiences in more than 100 cities worldwide and is now the longest running show in Broadway history. For his final overture, Phantom returns to take your breath away.

 

 

Coming Soon - Relapse Prevention Groups 
Two staff members of The HERO House attended Terence Gorski's Relapse Prevention Therapy Training and are currently working towards advanced certification. The certification is an intensive process that includes classes, examinations, reading, and a case study. Once the staff members become an Advanced Certified Relapse Prevention Specialist (ACRPS) we will begin relapse prevention groups which will be offered to HERO House residents as well as others outside of our community who are looking for extra support in their recovery. Stay tuned for details.

 
Save the Date

The dates for the Fall 2010 Family Weekend will be September 24-26.  Please SAVE THE DATE for the weekend. We will begin the weekend with a Social Event on Friday evening.  Saturday will be filled with workshops for the family and for residents.  Sunday will offer opportunity for individual families to meet with staff to discuss your resident.  I look forward to seeing you all at our next Family Weekend

 
Hotel for Family Weekend
We have arranged for a HERO House rate at the Springhill Suites by Marriott for Family Weekend.  Conveniently located a mile from our campus, it is a wonderful facility.  Their website is www.springhillsuites.com/atlkn. You may reserve your suite for $87.00 by contacting Felecia Callahan at 770-218-5550 and ask for the HERO House rate. 
 

 

"Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn't know that so it goes on flying anyway."

~Mary Kay Ash

 

About The HERO House
 

The HERO House is a recovery residence for college students in early sobriety.  We serve men and women in separate residences, based upon Peer-to-Peer Recovery Support, grounded in the 12-Step process. The HERO House is a community of students in recovery, sharing life experiences and helping each other achieve long term, quality sobriety and a manner of living that will make them outstanding contributors to our society.

 

Additionally, at the Higher Education Recovery Option, we work with students to return to school and to find the tools necessary to be successful while sober, on a college campus.  We tell residents at intake that our program is typically a one-year program; however, we recognize some residents will finish early and some will need additional time.  To successfully complete our program, residents need to complete a 12-Step Program, successfully complete one full-time semester of college, and to advance through all four of our levels of competency at The HERO House.

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